Monday, July 6, 2009

Talking Dirty - The Best Safe Sex There Is!

My spouse and I are discovering "dirty talking." Without fail, it gets our hearts racing, penis hard like steel and vagina impossibly slick and willing.

I love it so much, I want to share some of the lines we whisper to one another. See if you can guess which spouse said what. Why not share your favorite sex lines with the class?

"I want to feel your penis explode inside me."

"Make me overflow with your hot, hard cum."

"I'm going to tie you down and fuck every orifice."

"You're my sex toy."

"Let me slide my tongue into your ass."

"Fuck my face."

"Cum on my ass."

"Your cock is too big for me."

"It's so hard, I'm going to cum immediately."

"Looking at your face makes me want to cum right now."

"Touch me."

"Don't say another word and fuck me."

Now THAT's something to discuss in kallah classes! Excuse me while I go - uh - do what I need to do. :)


  1. Dirty talking can be a start but it's not for everyone. I personally don't like it much.

    I think that perhaps a certain form of detachment from oneself is required for true sexual and spiritual release in some extreme cases which is why I recommend role-playing as a healthy and easy way to find a means on communicating sexuality to one's SO.

    For example, many men I have encountered as a Domme had a rape fantasy but not quite like what you might expect. Many of these men feel so guilty and repressed with their sexuality, the only way for them to enjoy it is to have it "forced" upon them by a dominant woman who would, essentially, rape them.

    There's a good reason to why I chose the "scene" name Lady Lilith, as Lilith in Jewish demonology was in fact the first Domme and was banished from heaven (according to one of the stories) because she wanted to dominate Adam sexually. Ironically enough, many of his sons today seek just that.

  2. Interesting connection between repression and one's own rape fantasy.

    I agree that many of the sexual problems in the Chasidish community are a direct result of severe repression. The incidence of women presenting with STDs is incredible. If only they were all taught what to do with their feelings...